It is funny how we always try to cover stuff up. You rip your jeans, you throw a patch on it. There is a huge pothole in the street you patch it up. Patches cab be found everywhere and on everything. Even in relationships.
Sometimes people are so afraid with confronting a problem that they slap a quit patch job on it and move one.What they always seem to forget is, that those patches aren't a forever fix. That road is eventually going to have to be dug up and repaved, or the cloth will wear through, or eventually you are going to pick apart every tiny thing that someone does. It is human nature, and we are all guilty of it.
I think it is easy to let yourself get overwhelmed at an awkward situation and you build it up to be such a huge deal, that instead of confronting it, you choose to ignore it. Although, eventually, it is going to rear its ugly head, and you have two choices fight or flight. Now the term fight is used loosely here, but you get what I am saying.
The important thing to look at in this situation is, if you run, are you prepared for the repercussions?
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